Impaka ku myambarire y’abakobwa mu Rwanda zongeye gufata indi ntera nyuma y’igitaramo Diamond Platnumz Experience cyabereye i Kigali, aho bamwe mu bakobwa bavugwaho kuba barabujijwe kwinjira bitewe n’imyambaro bari bambaye. Ibi byakuruye impaka ku ishyirwa mu bikorwa ry’amahame agenga imyitwarire mu ruhame, ubwisanzure bw’umuntu mu kwihitiramo imyambaro ndetse n’uruhare rw’umuco Nyarwanda muri sosiyete iri guhinduka.
Ni ikibazo cy’imyambarire cyangwa n’imyitwarire rusange?
Igitaramo cya Diamond Platnumz cyabaye umwanya wo kwidagadura ku bantu benshi, ariko uburyo bamwe mu bitabiriye iki gitaramo bari bambaye bwaje guteza impaka nyuma y’uko hari abavuze ko babujijwe kwinjira kubera imyambaro yabonwaga nk’idakwiriye.
Icyo kibazo nticyagarukiye ku musozo w’igitaramo ahubwo cyahise gifungura ikiganiro kigari ku kibazo kimaze iminsi kigarukwaho mu Rwanda: Ese umuco n’indangagaciro by’igihugu bikwiye kugira uruhare rungana iki mu kugena imyambarire abantu bagomba kugira mu ruhame?
Ku ruhande rumwe, hari abavuga ko imyambarire ari ubwisanzure bw’umuntu kandi ko umuntu akwiye kugira uburenganzira bwo guhitamo uko yambara. Ku rundi ruhande, hari ababona ko ubwisanzure butagomba gukuraho amahame rusange agenga imyitwarire mu bantu.
Amategeko ateganya iki?
U Rwanda rufite amategeko ahana ibikorwa by’ubwiyandarike cyangwa ibikorwa bidakwiye gukorerwa mu ruhame. Icyakora, kuba hari amategeko agenga imyitwarire mu ruhame ntibivuze ko hariho umwambaro umwe utegetswe buri wese.
Ibi bituma itandukaniro riba ingenzi hagati yo gushyiraho amahame agenga imyitwarire rusange no kugena ubuzima bw’umuntu ku giti cye.
Ahantu hahurira abantu benshi hashobora kugira amabwiriza yihariye. Urugero Igitaramo, gishobora kugira amabwiriza agenga imyitwarire cyangwa imyambarire. Ikibazo gikomeye kiba ku buryo ayo mabwiriza ashyirwaho, atangazwa kandi agashyirwa mu bikorwa.
Ese umugore akwiye gucirwa urubanza hashingiwe ku myambarire ye?
Iki ni kimwe mu bibazo byibandwaho cyane n’abagore bagaragaza ko hari igihe imyambarire yabo ikoreshwa mu buryo budahuye naho isi n’ikinyejana bigeze..
Bamwe bavuga ko imyambarire idakwiye gukoreshwa mu kugena niba umugore ari umuntu wiyubashye, ufite indangagaciro cyangwa utazifite. Umwambaro mugufi ntabwo uhita ugaragaza imyitwarire y’uwambaye, kimwe n’uko kwambara mu buryo bitwa ko bwiyubashye bidahita bivuga ko uwambaye ari umuntu urusha abandi indangagaciro.
Imyambarire ishobora kuba uburyo bwo kwigaragaza, gukurikira imyambarire igezweho, kugaragaza umuco, imiterere y’umuntu cyangwa se kuba ari amahitamo ye bwite.
Ni yo mpamvu ari ngombwa kwitondera uburyo tuganira kuri iki kibazo, kugira ngo kwibutsa amahame agenga ahantu rusange bitavamo gutesha agaciro abagore kubera uko bambaye.
Minisiteri y’Urubyiruko n’Ubuhanzi ibibona ite?
Umunyamabanga wa Leta muri Minisiteri y’Urubyiruko n’Ubuhanzi, Sandrine Umutoni, na we yagiye agaragaza ko ikiganiro ku myambarire y’abagore kidakwiye kugarukira ku kubasaba gusa ibyo bakwiye kwambara.
Hari ikibazo kigari cy’umuco, ubucuruzi n’imyidagaduro aho ishusho y’umubiri w’umugore rimwe na rimwe ikoreshwa mu kwamamaza no gukurura abantu.
Ibi ariko ntibikwiye gufatwa nk’aho umubiri w’umugore ubwawo ari ikibazo cyangwa ko umugore agomba kubazwa imyitwarire y’undi muntu kubera uko yambaye.
Ubwisanzure bufite aho bugarukira?
Ubwisanzure bwo kwambara uko umuntu ashaka ni igice cy’ubwisanzure bw’umuntu ku giti cye. Ariko kandi, ubwisanzure mu muryango ntabwo buri gihe busobanura ko nta mategeko cyangwa amabwiriza ahari.
Ahantu hatandukanye hashobora kugira amahame atandukanye. Ishuri, akazi, insengero, ibirori byemewe n’amategeko cyangwa ibitaramo bishobora kugira amabwiriza y’imyitwarire atandukanye.
Iyo umuntu ahisemo kujya ahantu runaka, bishobora no kumusaba kubahiriza amabwiriza asanzwe agenga aho hantu.
Icy’ingenzi ni uko ayo mabwiriza aba yumvikana, asobanutse kandi yaratangajwe mbere, aho gutuma umuntu amenya ko hari umwambaro utemewe nyuma yo kugera ku muryango.
Abategura ibitaramo bafite inshingano ki?
Abategura ibitaramo na bo bafite uruhare rukomeye muri iki kibazo.
Niba hari amabwiriza agenga imyambarire, abitabiriye igitaramo bakwiye kuyamenyeshwa mbere yo kugura amatike cyangwa mbere yo kugera aho igitaramo kirabera. Ibi bifasha kwirinda amakimbirane hagati y’abitabiriye ibitaramo n’abashinzwe umutekano.
Amabwiriza asobanutse kandi atangajwe mbere ashobora gutuma umuntu ahitamo niba yemera kuyubahiriza cyangwa niba atitabira icyo gikorwa.
Ikindi ni uburyo ayo mabwiriza ashyirwa mu bikorwa.
Kubahiriza amabwiriza ntibigomba kuvamo guca umuntu intege
Hari itandukaniro rikomeye hagati yo kubwira umuntu mu kinyabupfura ko imyambarire ye itajyanye n’amabwiriza y’ahantu runaka no kumukoza isoni, kumutuka cyangwa kumufata nk’aho imyambarire ye ituma adakwiye kubahwa.
Niba hari amabwiriza agomba kubahirizwa, abashinzwe umutekano bakwiye kuyashyira mu bikorwa mu buryo buboneye kandi bwubaha ikiremwamuntu.
Ku bijyanye n’ibyabereye mu gitaramo cya Diamond Platnumz, hari amakuru n’ibirego bitandukanye byagiye bikwirakwizwa ku mbuga nkoranyambaga ku buryo aya mabwiriza yashyizwe mu bikorwa. Icyakora, ibirego bimwe ntibiragenzurwa cyangwa ngo byemezwe n’inzego zibifitiye ububasha, bityo bikwiye kwakirwa mu bwitonzi.
U Rwanda ruhagaze he hagati y’umuco n’isi igezweho?
Iki kibazo kandi ntigishobora gutandukanywa n’impinduka sosiyete Nyarwanda irimo.
Urubyiruko rw’u Rwanda rufite uburyo bwagutse bwo kubona imideri, umuziki n’umuco bitandukanye byo muri Afurika no ku isi. Imbuga nkoranyambaga na zo zatumye imyambarire yo mu bihugu bitandukanye igera ku rubyiruko mu gihe gito.
Ibi ntabwo byanze bikunze bisobanura ko umuco Nyarwanda ugomba guteshwa agaciro cyangwa kwirengagizwa.
Kuba umuntu akunda imideri igezweho ntabwo bihita bisobanura ko yanze umuco we. Muri ubwo buryo kandi, kurinda indangagaciro z’umuco ntibisobanura ko buri kintu gishya kigomba kwangwa.
Ikibazo nyamukuru ni ukumenya uko ibyo byombi byahuzwa.
Ni hehe umurongo ugomba kunyuzwa?
Umurongo ukwiye kuba hagati yo kurinda amahame rusange no kutivanga mu buzima bw’umuntu ku buryo burenze urugero.
Leta ifite inshingano zo gushyiraho no gushyira mu bikorwa amategeko agenga umutekano, imyitwarire n’imibanire mu bantu. Ariko ayo mategeko agomba gusobanuka kandi agashyirwa mu bikorwa mu buryo buboneye.
Abagore na bo bafite uburenganzira bwo kwihitiramo imyambarire yabo, ariko ubwisanzure bwabo ntibukuraho ko ahantu runaka hashobora kugira amabwiriza yihariye.
Abategura ibitaramo bafite inshingano zo kumenyesha abitabiriye ibyo bikorwa amabwiriza ahari.
Abashinzwe umutekano na bo bakwiye kuyashyira mu bikorwa batabangamiye cyangwa ngo basebye abo bashinzwe kurinda.
Imyambarire ntikwiye kuba igipimo cy’agaciro k’umuntu
Icy’ingenzi muri izi mpaka ni ukwirinda guhuza imyambarire n’agaciro k’umuntu.
Umugore wambaye umwenda mugufi ntabwo ahita aba umuntu udafite indangagaciro. N’umugore wambaye imyenda miremire cyangwa ifunze ntabwo ahita aba umuntu mwiza kurusha abandi.
Imyambarire ishobora kugaragaza amahitamo y’umuntu, ariko ntabwo ari igipimo gihagije cyo kumenya uwo muntu uwo ari we.
Muri ubwo buryo, kubahiriza umuco n’amahame agenga ahantu rusange na byo ntibigomba gufatwa nk’ugutesha agaciro uburenganzira bw’umuntu.
Umwanzuro: Balance ni yo ikenewe
Impaka zatangijwe n’imyambarire yabonetse mu gitaramo cya Diamond Platnumz i Kigali zahindutse ikiganiro kirenze ibijyanye n’imyenda.
Ni ikiganiro ku Rwanda rushaka kubaka igihugu cyubaha umuco n’indangagaciro zarwo, ariko kandi kikabasha guha urubyiruko umwanya wo kwigaragaza no gukorana n’impinduka z’isi.
Igisubizo ntigikwiye kuba guhatira abagore guceceka igihe bagaragaje impungenge zabo. Ntabwo kandi gikwiye kuba ugutesha agaciro inshingano za Leta zo kurinda amahame rusange.
Icyakorwa ni ugushaka uburinganire hagati y’ubwisanzure n’inshingano, hagati y’umuco n’impinduka, ndetse hagati yo gushyiraho amabwiriza no kubahiriza agaciro ka buri muntu.
U Rwanda rusaba ko abantu bubahiriza amahame y’imyitwarire mu ruhame ariko rudahutaza agaciro k’ abagore. Ikindi Kandi ibi bishobora gushyirwa mu bikorwa hubahirijwe amategeko hatabayeho kugira uwo bikoza isoni, mu rwego rwo kurinda umuco warwo rutabuza sosiyete gutera imbere.
Mu by’ukuri, agaciro k’umugore ntikagomba gupimirwa ku burebure bw’umwenda yambaye, kimwe n’uko kubaha umuco bidakwiye gufatwa nk’inzitizi y’ubwisanzure.
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