Gender expectations are the rules society puts on people because they are male or female. These rules affect how we act, dress, speak, and even dream. Many young people notice that expectations at home are very different from those in public spaces.
At home, gender roles are often shaped by culture and tradition. In many families, girls are expected to help with cooking, cleaning, and taking care of younger children. Boys, on the other hand, may be expected to do hard work, make decisions, or avoid house chores.
Girls are sometimes told to be quiet, respectful, and obedient. Boys may be told not to cry and to always be strong. These expectations can limit children. A girl who wants to lead or a boy who enjoys cooking may feel discouraged or misunderstood.
In public spaces like schools, workplaces, and social media, expectations can be different. Girls are encouraged to study, work, and speak up. Boys are allowed to show creativity and work in different fields.
However, public spaces still have pressure. Girls may be judged by how they dress or speak. Boys may be judged if they show emotions or choose careers seen as “for women.” Even though public spaces seem more free, stereotypes still exist.
The Conflict Between Home and Public Life
Many young people feel confused because they are taught one thing at home and another in public. At home, a girl may be told leadership is not for her, but at school she is encouraged to be confident. A boy may be taught to hide emotions at home, but in public he is told mental health matters.
This difference can cause stress and identity struggles. Young people may feel like they are living two different lives.
Gender expectations should not limit anyone. Skills, dreams, and emotions do not belong to one gender. Homes and public spaces should both support equality, respect, and freedom.
Parents, teachers, and leaders need to have open conversations. When children are allowed to be themselves both at home and in public, they grow with confidence and self-worth.
Gender expectations exist everywhere, but they should not control our lives. By challenging unfair rules at home and in public spaces, we can build a society where everyone feels seen, heard, and valued, no matter their gender.
Brenna AKARABO
RADIOTV10
